4 Ways to Give Yourself a Confidence Boost - Feel like the bad b!tch that you are
When it comes to beauty hacks, we sometimes forget about inner beauty, even though inner beauty is perhaps the most important. Perhaps the biggest beauty hack is to shine from within- to be the best, kind version of yourself, and everything else will fall into place.
However, I bet we can all agree that some days are harder than others, especially when we’re feeling self-conscious, insecure, or any number of those things. I want you to feel good because that’s when you shine the most.
I wanna share my 4 simple beauty tips to feel good from within. These 4 tips will not only boost your confidence, but it can have the power to make you feel the best you’ve ever felt, so let’s get into it:
1. Hype yourself up!!!!
You need to compliment yourself because honestly, if you don’t see the greatness in yourself, how can others? I’m not saying to be self-absorbed… Basically, daily affirmations! You ARE these things. You ARE great. You ARE beautiful, successful, kind, smart, etc!! Say them all! Out loud even! Write them down! You have to believe in them, too. The best way, even, can be looking at yourself in the mirror, literally hyping yourself up.
When you believe it, that’s the greatest confidence boost. Not only your confidence, but your mindset. You just feel radiant and positive. So don’t forget about your daily affirmations. You deserve it, b!tch. You ARE the bad b!tch.
2. Fix your posture
GIRLLLL, hold your head up high and open up your shoulders. You have to be welcoming, but also a bit assertive. You know who you are and the way you hold yourself is everything. Not only are you giving your back and shoulders a favor, but you’ll help your confidence. It’s so easy to slouch, but please, do your body a favor- roll the shoulders back.
You don’t need to make yourself small, but you also don’t need to be so over the top. Just fix your posture, and be yourself. The way you hold yourself up is also an indicator that you are approachable, in literally any setting. I’m not saying you have to be sociable, but posture is guaranteed to help boost your confidence and just feels good.
3. Act like you know what you’re doing
I say act because, let’s be real, as long as you’re sure of yourself, no one will question you. Do things with confidence, is what I’m really trying to say. Everything else will fall into place. I mean, don’t do anything that could cause potential harm, but when you navigate life, with the thought that you know what you’re doing, I swear, 99% of the time, you do know what you’re doing.
That may sound a bit stupid- but basically, when you’re doing something, give it your all and just… ask for forgiveness if all goes wrong.
4. Be kind!
This may seem weird but literally being nice can help with your confidence so much. Positivity is contagious and it’s guaranteed to be reciprocated. For example, if you’re entering unknown territory, like an event where you don’t know many people there, the best thing to do is: first off- SMILE. A smile is already a kind gesture, not just for others, but yourself, too. Smiling makes you feel better, honestly- it really goes a long way. (And pro tip: don’t look straight at your phone if you’re lost- trust me, the phone closes yourself off.) But also, don’t be afraid to compliment others. It doesn’t have to be so extravagant and don’t be fake about it either. “I like your smile”, “you’re so sweet”, “I like your style”. It’s an easy way to notice others and to just be a kinder and happier person.
Being kind will get you far, there’s no need to be mean. You attract what you put out there.
Being confident is about how you feel in your own skin. If you’re unsure about yourself, how can others be sure about you? These small things can help you feel better about yourself and just be confident in who you are. It is a little weird that this can be about how you approach others; I mean, it is hard to approach others if you’re not confident, an introvert, just nervous, or whatever. But never second guess who you are and do things with kindness and respect. Sometimes, you just have to act like you know what you’re doing, but it’s fine. Do it with confidence. Be the bad b*tch that you are.
xoxo,
kaels
too bad ain’t me<3
And remember: the only opinion that matters is yours. This is about self-confidence, not seeking validation from others.
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